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Post by Monster is back|newobsession| on Sept 2, 2008 20:37:47 GMT -5
Still over the whole Fuabr thing..
I reallllyyyy like him. Thats a problem. HUGE problem. Whats sad is that Im actually considering going out with him..
But all my closest friend will get very mad at me.. Some will understand.. but my problem is that my best friend went out with him.. and was forced to break up with him.. And she still loves him.. And they only broke up like.. a week ago..
And I miss him..
Alot.
And I love his touch and everything about him.. except he can be a real jackass sometimes...
I just really like him...
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Post by Endovia on Sept 2, 2008 21:29:02 GMT -5
Tough situation. I don't have any advice or magic spell I could do to make it better, wish I did, but just let things play out. It'll work out.  |
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Post by Monster is back|newobsession| on Sept 3, 2008 20:32:16 GMT -5
I sure hope so.. im just so confused.....
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Post by Endovia on Sept 3, 2008 20:43:20 GMT -5
Hmm...I think you need to distract yourself. Don't think about it. Not much of a help, I know, but what else can you do? Thinking too much about will just make your head hurt.
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Post by sapphiresmoke on Sept 3, 2008 22:00:51 GMT -5
I'd agree with Endovia... Try to let go of him. It's hard, I know, but I really think that's the only way. It's your best friend or a boy you probably won't be with forever.
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Post by ~Beauty~ on Sept 3, 2008 22:43:47 GMT -5
Love hurts.
It hurts a hell of a lot sometimes.
And sometimes you just have to let things go... If it is meant to be, it will happen.
Time heals all.
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Post by Endovia on Sept 4, 2008 16:41:02 GMT -5
Whatever you do I would be sure that your friend doesn't found out. If she does it won't help that's for sure.
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Post by Monster is back|newobsession| on Sept 4, 2008 20:06:21 GMT -5
No not at all the other part is that I just cant bare to talk to her.. Its quite awakrd and all I can think about is what happened with Fubar..
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Post by sapphiresmoke on Sept 4, 2008 20:33:58 GMT -5
Hmmm... That's tough. You can't talk to her because of what happened?
Maybe you need to talk to him. See what it meant to him, and explain that it can't happen again. You might feel better after that.
When my best friend broke up with her boyfriend, he tried to get me to go out with him. I felt guilty even though I wouldn't go out with him because I hadn't told her about it (I hadn't flat-out said no to him yet). Finally, I talked to him and told him that I would not, under any circumstances, go out with him, because it would hurt her (I didn't like him that much, anyway, so it wasn't exactly like your situation, Monster). The point is, talking to HIM about it helped. Making sure that he knew it wouldn't happen made me feel better about the whole situation.
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Post by Endovia on Sept 5, 2008 16:31:33 GMT -5
You know, there has to be books about characters in similar situations. I don't know any because I'm more into mystery and fantasy but perhaps reading about someone in the same position will help. You can see what they do and how they handled it.
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Post by sapphiresmoke on Sept 5, 2008 19:15:15 GMT -5
Yeah, that's a good idea, Endovia.
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Post by Endovia on Sept 5, 2008 20:31:09 GMT -5
I'm just trying to think of anything that might help since I've never experienced something like Monster has.
Do you know of any books like that, Sapphire?
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Post by Endovia on Sept 5, 2008 20:37:25 GMT -5
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Post by Monster is back|newobsession| on Sept 5, 2008 23:01:52 GMT -5
Thank you!!
And I have talked to him.. But right now Im just kind of avoiding him.. I really dont want any interaction with him because I know what will happen again if I do..
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Post by Endovia on Sept 5, 2008 23:24:05 GMT -5
No problem. I hope it all gets better. That's good that you talked to him. Great idea, it'll probably save some trouble. |
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